How do you know if he likes you? If you're like most girls, you've asked that question at least once in your life. You're not alone. It really is hard to tell. There are different reasons, but it usually boils down to one or two things:
1. Some guys are shy.
2. Some guys just don't know how to let you know.
Guys can be so socially awkward and immature sometimes. If it were up to them, most would settle for pulling your ponytail just like they did during recess in elementary school. ("I like her. How can I tell her? Oh! Oh! I know. I'll pull out a clump of her hair in front of her friends and she's sure to get the message.")
So how can you know if he likes you despite his complete lack of social awareness? Here are three tried and true nonverbal signals that you can look for that will let you quickly and easily know if he sees you as more than just a friend.
1. You get the feeling that someone is looking at you, but as soon as you turn in his direction he immediately looks away and appears disinterested.
This one is hard to spot, but if you've ever done it to a guy yourself (and most of us have) then you'll recognize the signs that he's doing it to you.
2. He'll smile at you from a distance, but as soon as you're close, he'll look anywhere but directly at you.
This one is a dead giveaway. Most guys have no problem playing the part of the "confident male" from across the room. There's no danger in that. In fact, he may seem like a real Romeo when he texts or emails you, but as soon as he has to think of what to say in real time with you standing there, his sudden surge of hormones and racing pulse and make it almost impossible for him to keep his thoughts straight and together.
3. His voice may crack or he may stammer over words when he talks to you.
Again, blame it on the raging hormones. When a guy sees a woman to whom he's attracted within touching distance, he can easily become flustered. The number of images and scenarios racing through his mind is spectacular. There may even be times when he starts talking that he doesn't remember what he was talking about -- in mid-sentence!
Yes guys are an unusual breed. Harder to piece together than a jigsaw puzzle. But they are so worth the time it takes to figure them out. If you're wondering if a guy is interested, these three clues will give you insight. Couple them with your built-in woman's intuition and you'll have a really good idea if he's into you whether he admits to it or not.
Sara J. writes about love, dating and relationships. You can find more of her articles on guys, gals and the dynamics between them at the website http://www.managetolove.com.
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